Coach Resources

⚽️ Coach Resources & Sideline Expectations

Welcome, coaches! We’ve pulled together helpful resources to support your season — from sideline guidance to coaching tools and Region 20 policies. Whether you’re new or experienced, this page is your go-to hub for coaching success in Santa Monica AYSO.


🧰 Coaching Tools & Helpful Links

Whether you’re coaching 5U or 14U, we’ve got what you need.


📣 Sideline Behavior & Zero Tolerance Policy

Setting a great example starts with us. Coaches are responsible for maintaining positive sideline behavior — including your team’s parents. We follow a Zero Tolerance Policy toward any mistreatment of referees. This applies to all referees — especially youth referees.

🚫 Region 20’s Zero Tolerance Guidelines:

  • No yelling at referees — before, during, or after games
  • No disputing calls or entering the field of play
  • No sarcasm, harassment, or aggressive questioning
  • All decisions are final and “in the opinion of the referee” (ITOOTR)

Violations can lead to immediate ejection and possible suspension by the Region 20 Board.

🔗 Referee Zero Tolerance Policy
🔗 Parent Sideline Behavior Pledge
🔗 Before You Yell at the Referee…


🚨 Carding Coaches (New Since 2019)

Yes — coaches can be carded. Law 12 now allows referees to issue yellow or red cards to team officials for inappropriate behavior.

Yellow Card = Warning for persistent sideline issues, dissent, or disrespect.
Red Card = Ejection for entering the field, aggressive language, or misconduct.

If a coach can’t control their spectators, they can be held responsible too.

Learn more on 📛 Carding Team Officials


💡 Common Sideline Misunderstandings

Coaches and spectators often get frustrated over calls. Before you react, here’s what to keep in mind:

❓ Offside

Timing and position are key — it’s judged when the ball is played, not when the player receives it. Trust your AR’s angle.

❓ Handball

Only a deliberate handball is a foul. If it’s accidental or in a natural position, no call.

❓ Fouls

Not every fall is a foul. It must be careless, reckless, or excessive to be penalized.

❓ Throw-ins

Ugly is OK. As long as both feet are on the ground and the throw comes from behind the head — it’s legal.


🤝 We’re All in This Together

Referees are volunteers, just like you. Many are parents, neighbors, and even teens. Let’s model good behavior and create a positive experience for everyone.

Need help or want to suggest a resource?
📩 Contact Regional Coach Administrator: rca@ayso20.org